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	<title>Comments on: Got Pigtail? Ugh. Halloween Costume Conundrum</title>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2009/10/halloween-costume-conundrum.html#comment-292</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:46:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the smilies are showing solidarity, in their limited way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the smilies are showing solidarity, in their limited way.</p>
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		<title>By: Absence Alternatives</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2009/10/halloween-costume-conundrum.html#comment-291</link>
		<dc:creator>Absence Alternatives</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:18:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Once again, thank you for letting me vent. And it does feel good to know I am not venting to a vacuum.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once again, thank you for letting me vent. And it does feel good to know I am not venting to a vacuum.</p>
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		<title>By: Absence Alternatives</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2009/10/halloween-costume-conundrum.html#comment-290</link>
		<dc:creator>Absence Alternatives</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:17:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ &lt;a class=&quot;reply&quot; href=&quot;#comment-284&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jamie&lt;/a&gt;
I don&#039;t know why: but now the smilies look like they have slanty eyes.  Are they mocking me?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ <a class="reply" href="#comment-284" rel="nofollow">Jamie</a><br />
I don&#8217;t know why: but now the smilies look like they have slanty eyes.  Are they mocking me?!</p>
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		<title>By: Absence Alternatives</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2009/10/halloween-costume-conundrum.html#comment-289</link>
		<dc:creator>Absence Alternatives</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ &lt;a class=&quot;reply&quot; href=&quot;#comment-284&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jamie&lt;/a&gt;
Thanks for the moral support...  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ <a class="reply" href="#comment-284" rel="nofollow">Jamie</a><br />
Thanks for the moral support&#8230;  <img src='http://absenceofalternatives.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Absence Alternatives</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2009/10/halloween-costume-conundrum.html#comment-288</link>
		<dc:creator>Absence Alternatives</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ &lt;a class=&quot;reply&quot; href=&quot;#comment-285&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jane&lt;/a&gt;
LOVE your neighbor&#039;s reaction too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ <a class="reply" href="#comment-285" rel="nofollow">Jane</a><br />
LOVE your neighbor&#8217;s reaction too!</p>
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		<title>By: Velva</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2009/10/halloween-costume-conundrum.html#comment-287</link>
		<dc:creator>Velva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:19:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another great blog post! Loved it.
.-= Velva&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tomatoesonthevine-velva.blogspot.com/2009/10/winter-minestrone.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Winter Minestrone&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another great blog post! Loved it.<br />
.-= Velva&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://tomatoesonthevine-velva.blogspot.com/2009/10/winter-minestrone.html" rel="nofollow">Winter Minestrone</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that is very clever.
.-= Robin&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/11/02/when-avitable-crosses-the-line/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;When Avitable Crosses The Line&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that is very clever.<br />
.-= Robin&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/11/02/when-avitable-crosses-the-line/" rel="nofollow">When Avitable Crosses The Line</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 04:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this post! But when you say &quot;underneath the appearances we are all people?&quot; Nope. Apparently not. Most people can&#039;t see past the appearances. But I love it when I run into the people who do. One time, pushing our new baby in her stroller (recently adopted from Korea - and we&#039;re caucasian) a dear, elderly neighbor ooo&#039;d and ahhh&#039;d over her and then asked, &quot;Are you going to tell her she is adopted?&quot; My husband later giggled over the comment. But I LOVED it. To me, it illustrated our neighbor&#039;s color blindness. He saw a beautiful, sweet baby - not a skin color or eye shape. And because he came from a time when adoptions were secret, he simply wondered how we were going to handle our situation. But those experiences are few - and the &quot;they like rice&quot; comments ( and yes, we&#039;re heard that one a hundred times) are far too many.
.-= Jane&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theycallmejane.wordpress.com/2009/10/31/who-will-visit-when-were-gone/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Who Will Visit When We’re Gone?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this post! But when you say &#8220;underneath the appearances we are all people?&#8221; Nope. Apparently not. Most people can&#8217;t see past the appearances. But I love it when I run into the people who do. One time, pushing our new baby in her stroller (recently adopted from Korea &#8211; and we&#8217;re caucasian) a dear, elderly neighbor ooo&#8217;d and ahhh&#8217;d over her and then asked, &#8220;Are you going to tell her she is adopted?&#8221; My husband later giggled over the comment. But I LOVED it. To me, it illustrated our neighbor&#8217;s color blindness. He saw a beautiful, sweet baby &#8211; not a skin color or eye shape. And because he came from a time when adoptions were secret, he simply wondered how we were going to handle our situation. But those experiences are few &#8211; and the &#8220;they like rice&#8221; comments ( and yes, we&#8217;re heard that one a hundred times) are far too many.<br />
.-= Jane&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://theycallmejane.wordpress.com/2009/10/31/who-will-visit-when-were-gone/" rel="nofollow">Who Will Visit When We’re Gone?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 16:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think there&#039;s a difference between making fun of fashions &amp; occupations and sporting pig tails, which are a stereotype of an entire ethnicity.  I may be wrong... anyone?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think there&#8217;s a difference between making fun of fashions &amp; occupations and sporting pig tails, which are a stereotype of an entire ethnicity.  I may be wrong&#8230; anyone?</p>
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		<title>By: Linwood's Girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Linwood's Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 16:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always have thought that people just wanna get worked up about Halloween......what ethnicity has not been made fun of.....I went to a party with Afro&#039;s, Mullet wigs, Komono&#039;s, Bull Fighter&#039;s, French maids,.....it could go on and on.  I think sense of humor and being able to laugh and know that (in most cases) there is no offense intended is what make Halloween grand!
.-= Linwood&#039;s Girl&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mywildlifeswords.com/2009/10/clean-hands-and-poo.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Clean Hands and Poo.&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always have thought that people just wanna get worked up about Halloween&#8230;&#8230;what ethnicity has not been made fun of&#8230;..I went to a party with Afro&#8217;s, Mullet wigs, Komono&#8217;s, Bull Fighter&#8217;s, French maids,&#8230;..it could go on and on.  I think sense of humor and being able to laugh and know that (in most cases) there is no offense intended is what make Halloween grand!<br />
.-= Linwood&#8217;s Girl&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.mywildlifeswords.com/2009/10/clean-hands-and-poo.html" rel="nofollow">Clean Hands and Poo.</a> =-.</p>
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