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	<title>Comments on: Twelveteen Going on Thirty</title>
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		<title>By: Kristen @ Motherese</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4895</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristen @ Motherese</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2010 01:56:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Egad!  Your feed stopped appearing in my Google Reader so I am way behind on your posts.  Fixed it and am catching up now...but before I go, I must comment to say that this post both terrifies me and heartens me.  I can&#039;t imagine what the state of technology will be by the time my boys are old enough to start using it, but I love that your son found a way to include you in his world.  There&#039;s hope, it seems, for us old fogeys even in the digital age!
.-= Kristen @ Motherese´s last blog...&lt;a href=&quot;http://mothereseblog.com/2010/03/19/replacement-ruffles/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Replacement Ruffles&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Egad!  Your feed stopped appearing in my Google Reader so I am way behind on your posts.  Fixed it and am catching up now&#8230;but before I go, I must comment to say that this post both terrifies me and heartens me.  I can&#8217;t imagine what the state of technology will be by the time my boys are old enough to start using it, but I love that your son found a way to include you in his world.  There&#8217;s hope, it seems, for us old fogeys even in the digital age!<br />
.-= Kristen @ Motherese´s last blog&#8230;<a href="http://mothereseblog.com/2010/03/19/replacement-ruffles/" rel="nofollow">Replacement Ruffles</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen @ NathanRising</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4637</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen @ NathanRising</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 01:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The thought of Nathan one day growing up and liking girls scares me to death!
.-= Jen @ NathanRising´s last blog...&lt;a href=&quot;http://nathanrising.com/2010/03/the-ultimate-king-of-all-mega-poops/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Ultimate King of ALL Mega Poops&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The thought of Nathan one day growing up and liking girls scares me to death!<br />
.-= Jen @ NathanRising´s last blog&#8230;<a href="http://nathanrising.com/2010/03/the-ultimate-king-of-all-mega-poops/" rel="nofollow">The Ultimate King of ALL Mega Poops</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: secret agent woman</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4357</link>
		<dc:creator>secret agent woman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In some cultures, 12 is the age of adulthood.  It&#039;s hard to watch them growing up.
.-= secret agent woman´s last blog...&lt;a href=&quot;http://incognitoagent.blogspot.com/2010/03/its-not-just-squirrels-and-birds.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;It&#039;s not just the squirrels and birds...&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In some cultures, 12 is the age of adulthood.  It&#8217;s hard to watch them growing up.<br />
.-= secret agent woman´s last blog&#8230;<a href="http://incognitoagent.blogspot.com/2010/03/its-not-just-squirrels-and-birds.html" rel="nofollow">It&#8217;s not just the squirrels and birds&#8230;</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Falling</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4336</link>
		<dc:creator>Falling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 07:03:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And this is what makes me so glad I made that deal with that funny little elf that came to me while I was pregnant.  Sure, I had to spin straw into gold, but that seems a small price to pay for the fact that my baby will always stay a sweet, pudgy babe who only has eyes for his mama.
.-= Falling´s last blog...&lt;a href=&quot;http://skyisfallingblog.blogspot.com/2010/03/this-is-why-i-dont-get-invited-to-more.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;This is Why I Don&#039;t Get Invited to More Parties&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And this is what makes me so glad I made that deal with that funny little elf that came to me while I was pregnant.  Sure, I had to spin straw into gold, but that seems a small price to pay for the fact that my baby will always stay a sweet, pudgy babe who only has eyes for his mama.<br />
.-= Falling´s last blog&#8230;<a href="http://skyisfallingblog.blogspot.com/2010/03/this-is-why-i-dont-get-invited-to-more.html" rel="nofollow">This is Why I Don&#8217;t Get Invited to More Parties</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: subWOW</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4331</link>
		<dc:creator>subWOW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:48:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Unfortunately, at a snap of the fingers when you are least expecting it. Boom! They grow up. 

The title of your latest post... What&#039;s going on?! Need to go check it out!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately, at a snap of the fingers when you are least expecting it. Boom! They grow up. </p>
<p>The title of your latest post&#8230; What&#8217;s going on?! Need to go check it out!</p>
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		<title>By: subWOW</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4330</link>
		<dc:creator>subWOW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is no right or wrong way. Every child is different. It is wonderful that your closeness to your son allows the trust between you. First dance eh? I am sure I will be a crying mess when that day comes when he gets dressed up and everything. I cried when the girl across the street went to her first prom and I got a glimpse of her. We are not even close neighbors! Facebook has turned out to be quite useful in the parenting department, I have to admit. It&#039;s like a magical looking glass into their world. Scary too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is no right or wrong way. Every child is different. It is wonderful that your closeness to your son allows the trust between you. First dance eh? I am sure I will be a crying mess when that day comes when he gets dressed up and everything. I cried when the girl across the street went to her first prom and I got a glimpse of her. We are not even close neighbors! Facebook has turned out to be quite useful in the parenting department, I have to admit. It&#8217;s like a magical looking glass into their world. Scary too.</p>
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		<title>By: subWOW</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4329</link>
		<dc:creator>subWOW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:42:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL. You should wait for Mr. Monk. He loves older ladies. Really. He chats them up. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL. You should wait for Mr. Monk. He loves older ladies. Really. He chats them up. <img src='http://absenceofalternatives.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: subWOW</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4328</link>
		<dc:creator>subWOW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes they are supposed to! *sigh*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes they are supposed to! *sigh*</p>
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		<title>By: subWOW</title>
		<link>http://absenceofalternatives.com/2010/03/twelveteen-going-on-thirty.html#comment-4327</link>
		<dc:creator>subWOW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:40:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In this day and age, add it to the list of what a parent has to do to survive their children: Ninja moves. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this day and age, add it to the list of what a parent has to do to survive their children: Ninja moves. <img src='http://absenceofalternatives.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: subWOW</title>
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		<dc:creator>subWOW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:40:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the kind words. Like I said, quite a few trial and errors. Since I went through the whole gamut of emotions, I hope by writing them down and sharing them at least it could make it easier for when some of you go through the same thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the kind words. Like I said, quite a few trial and errors. Since I went through the whole gamut of emotions, I hope by writing them down and sharing them at least it could make it easier for when some of you go through the same thing.</p>
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