ability to be oblivious

“Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.” -- Margaret Atwood I came across a helpful, objective, step by step analysis of "Reverse [Fill in the blank]ism" complaints and the fallacy in those complaints. Often in the call for "compassion", for understanding, for listening to the [...]

I've read the Millennials are the color-blind generation, and it's always bothered me a bit. To be honest, I was hoping that I not be the person to break the bad news to my kids why this optimism is misplaced. Millennials, as a whole, feel that colorblindness is something to strive toward, yet they believe in "celebrating [...]

Apparently many of my friends from my "real life" LOVE The Help. Love it. They are telling people on Facebook to "GO SEE THE HELP. RUN. NOT WALK!" including a dear dear friend who studied and wrote about Apartheid in South Africa. As I ponder how much I should share my perspectives with her at the risk of [...]

Eat Pray Love. Why not?

Now that the fever towards the book and the movie has died down, hopefully, I feel it is safe to explain why I cannot bring myself to pick up this ever-popular book. And really, it is not like there were not a pile of books in my house waiting for me to finish, and that [...]

Lost in Translation

The comment by Justin from Here where I Have Landed on my earlier post Things I Missed echoed my experience and feeling: ... when I tell people that I wasn’t born here, and that I came here to go to college, they’re consistently surprised, “What? But your English is so good!” like it’s completely unnatural [...]

Sometimes I wonder whether the teachers talk about the parents amongst themselves. I would probably be known as "Trouble Maker". My favorite moment was when I confronted approached the principal at the Thanksgiving Feast: "Could I safely assume that the headpieces the children are wearing are 'turkeys' and not 'head dresses'?" I used the quotation [...]

I probably don't need to publish this post on my blog. It is not appealing. It is not good writing. It will not make you laugh out loud. It is not even a proper rant. Besides, it is friggin' long - I am amazed at how much I tapped out on my iPhod, and tedious. [...]

Social Networking

A dear friend of mine passed this comment on Social Networking along to me from none other than the always brilliant Non Sequitur cartoon. She received it from her doting partner whose eyes could not have rolled any further when my friend and I were comparing our notes on using Twitter... I found myself more [...]

Every Halloween, we saw news reports and editorial comments on offensive costumes du jour.  What I call Halloween Costume Conundrum. HCC. This year, the HCC award went to Illegal Alien: It was such a brouhaha partly because, in my opinion, it was sold through Target's website.  Target, the one mega store that does not seem [...]

This painting was by Ed Paschke in 1969. 40 years ago. It is on exhibit at the new modern wing of the Art Institute of Chicago. For some unknown reason, I found it sad and strangely resonating when I saw it for the first time. And till this day, I am haunted by it. "The [...]

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